My Cute Little Lady-Boner

I have such a cute little boner for Justin Bond.




I don't know what it is, but certain guys in drag just FUCKS my shit up.

Not all of them, but many.

Tim Curry in Rocky Horror is another one of them.



I find women crossing as men to be foxy too, but in a different sort of way. With females, it's a bit more acceptable because gender-bending is a more common thing on a small-scale. We wear pants. Men don't frequently wear skirts. For example. With males, it's more taboo to be walking around donning a lavish ballroom gown in public. To do that takes a bit of the ol' "fuck you," a sense of not caring about the opinions of the general population, and balls balls balls. Big hot glorious balls. Maybe that's the thing too: to me, it takes more balls and more "manliness" (or awareness of your masculinity) or strength (let's just say "strength") to be willing to subvert your own "masculinity" without acting as though it's some big deal. It's the dickhead jocks who have a shit-fit about guys in drag that are ultimately way less ballsy, way less strong, and clearly way more insecure than a good man in drag.

I think I like the effrontery of it. There's something really attractive about it. There's something really foxy in that kind of self-confidence, something beautiful in being that certain and unafraid of yourself. The same sort of way that I secretly admire folks with full-sleeve elaborate tattoos, facial-tatts, or huge ear-plugs. You are willfully declaring yourself as an "outsider" in society. (With tattoos even moreso because they're a bit more irreversible.) Not an outsider in a BAD way, but in a way that refuses to step into the normally-assumed roles we're all supposed to play. You're saying, "Fuck you and what you think is 'normalcy.' This is the way the real people roll." It just radiates.

I dig that in folks.

That's about as foxy as you can get, in my book.

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